How Escaping May Not Be The Best Solution
Is escaping always the best answer to your problem?
The Spirit Of Division And How To Defeat It
Instantly, my mind heard, “The spirit of division.”
Combine These 3 Forces And Watch What Happens
Are you looking a mountain in the face? Does it feel impossible?
The Pain Of Rejection And How To Overcome It
You CAN recover. Christ is your identity. No one has the power to change your identity. Try these methods to recover from “identity assassination”
Impatience Is A Battle And Here Is How To Win
Lesson: “If you can learn to wait on God you can learn to wait on people
Can You See The Other Side Of Your Problem?
It’s not easy to see God’s side of your problem.He sees the END; you see the BEGINNING. Hesees the TRUTH; you see the FACTS.
How To Remain Unshakable When It All Caves In
Try these four key secrets that brought those miners through and will deliver you as well:
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Don’t blame God.
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Find an encourager.
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Breathe…and sing
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“Trust.”
This is How You Restore Your Past
RESTORATION. I love that word. It speaks of hope, of past mistakes being made up for.
God is a God of restoration. He doesn’t ignore failure. He gives us the courage to face failure and defeat what defeated us.
Try these ideas about restoring your past failures:
How You Can Overcome Betrayal
Betrayal is as old as humankind. A strong alliance or partnership is suddenly dissolved. Close, intimate friends are wounded. Cynicism sets in as it seems “no one can be trusted.”
There’s hope after betrayal.
We’ve all been there (including me) and I can help you with a few perspectives:
How to Handle an Insult (Without Doing Something Stupid)
An insult is a hard thing to handle. Our pride, position, and even personhood is attacked. We all tend to automatically lash out in retaliation.
How do you resist the urge to “fight fire with fire?”
Here are some thoughts to help you calm down and let God fight your battles:
Five Powerful Ways You Can Conquer Temptation
I am not a great snow skier. I recall a time I slid down a mountain and was only stopped when I hit a snow fence and “face-planted” on the other side of it!
Snow skiing is “slightly downhill and out of control.” Kind of like TEMPTATION.
Sin is a slippery slope.
HOW CAN YOU PUT ON THE BRAKES WHEN YOU ARE ABOUT TO SLIDE OFF THE MOUNTAIN?
How to Deal With a Crisis
Leaders face crisis. Parents face crisis. Nations face crisis. Dealing with crisis correctly can mean the difference in a marriage divorcing or a war starting.
Here are four things I have learned to always do when a crisis, a trauma, a shocking development occurs:
How To Keep Yourself From Being Offended
These days, everyone is offended. Offended by a social media “like" or “dislike.” Offended by being left out of the party. Offended by politics, religion, race, referees, and a hundred other possible stumbling blocks.
How do you keep yourself from constantly being offended?
What Do You Do When Your Leader Disappears?
When Moses was gone for 40 days up the mountain, it turned into a “free for all” down below. People usually behave correctly until their leader is not around. THEN…it is up to their inner character.
Here is how you control your passions even when no one is watching:
5 Important Lessons from the Woman at the Well
The terrible violence in Christchurch, New Zealand, is a bell that tolls worldwide. It raises questions of who we are and where we are.
When Christ met a Samaritan woman at a well, those questions were answered.
Here are the relevant thoughts from the story of the “woman at the well” that speak to me about our current state of religious conflict:
7 Rules on How to Have a Healthy Disagreement
America has gone out of control.
Civility, respect, and honor are disappearing. Anger, vitriol, and assault have become the norm.
Here are my 7 rules on how to have a good disagreement:
How to Defeat the Challenge of Grief and Regret
Grief and regret are the twin prongs of paralysis. If you can change it, change it. If you can’t change it, move past it.
How do you defeat the challenge of grief and regret?
How to Change Your Pain into Purpose
Pain is real. Everyone feels it.